According to an old saying, a person always says the truth in anger. So, do you remember any recent fight with your husband or boyfriend? Both must have outpoured the feelings which could not have been revealed in good mood. Are those hateful words true which keep buzzing in ears after the patch up and even when you are in his arms? Yes, it really becomes hard to decide which of the aspects are true.
Fights are a common part of a relationship and most of the times, a relationship itself begins with a fight. Though its tough to believe that those hurting words are not from the heart but the love which is showered after should smoothen everything.
In fact, the angry shower should be taken as correction power towards perfection. It applies to both boys and girls as they can suffer the same situation at different levels.However, when those bitter words are not followed by the balm of love, the reason should be easily understood. And to be accurate, sometimes separation is better than external patch up in such cases.
It has become quite common in the recent years that people get married in the sway of instant emotions and then regret through out their lives. Marriage should never be an instant decision, t should be based on the foundation of a lost of positive proven experiments. Once in thousands, there can be seen sudden changes after the marriage but 99% is the victim of false perception.
For by my anger is a weakness
ReplyDeleteAnger is really very destructive as it makes us say those things which we don't ever mean. The saddest part is those words can't be taken back or justified and the relationship is cracked for ever.
Deleteeach stage of life is a story, all is love
ReplyDeletewithout love nothing is possible
Well said. Love is life and our life is a journey of love which we meet in various phases at different stages of life.
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