Showing posts with label marry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marry. Show all posts

Thursday, 29 August 2013

We will Meet Again!!

You were the hope once
In you laid my happiness
Couldn’t leave you ever
Even after walking the aisle
With someone else
Kept your thoughts alive
To finish the span of this life
And meet you again

 But all hopes shattered now
You even snatched my thoughts
By marrying someone else
Every thought about you
Shows you with other person
And crushes my dreams forever
How to life this long life?
All sources of happiness gone

Still, I would wait for you
To meet me in other world
Where love is the uppermost
And lovers always praised
This life will be an effort
To achieve you, my love
This will not go in vain
As we would meet forever!

Monday, 1 April 2013

Was She Over-Ambitious?

She craved for an identity
Shared by none.
Wanted to die when
Known by thousands.

She wanted to work
To have self respect.
Wanted to earn
To avoid dependence.

She wanted to marry
The one who loved.
Never wanted
Any third in between.

None of these fulfilled
she sees her wings cut.
Her dreams bleeding
And the life shattered.

Very simple dreams
Would have hurt none.
But disaster fell upon
She couldn’t acquire one.

Friday, 22 March 2013

Marry The One Who Loves You, Not The One Whom You Love

Love is called as the other name of sacrifice but, to some extent the expectations are always attached to it. Sometimes, we miss the true love of our life and choose the artificial cover of emotions which is hollow from inside. Trust me, there is no way to return after you cross one phase of life and the only thing which hovers till the end is the regret. The worst part is that worse than the worst comes out even if you try to go back as the situations completely change by then.

I know the scene described is really hard to imagine before it is experienced but once it falls upon someone, the whole life is ruined. The institution of marriage has lost the importance in the present era but, still at some point of your life you choose someone to settle down.

Experienced people always make a statement of million dollars when they say ‘Marry the one who loves you, not the one whom you love’.  It does not mean that the person whom you love does not love and the other way round but, a dominating side is always there. If we think logically, this statement proves very true in the long run. If you marry the person whom you love, your expectations dominate and in the other way, the other’s feelings dominate. It pinches a lot when the person whom you love hurts you and the person who loved you is ditched by you.

The above discussion is not to confuse anyone but to advise everyone to move ahead in life with a wise discretion. One single decision ruins the life forever. Yes, you can leave the person anytime and try to move ahead but, the thorn always remains. You can settle down with the second one, then the third one and may be the fourth one as well, but the dissatisfaction always increases with every new relation, how much ever you deny. The mere suggestion is to understand the relations and make the biggest decisions with extreme patience and after listening to both the heart and the mind. Love is blind, it is true but, do not get swayed by this blind emotion to the extent that it makes your whole life blind.

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